It is so easy to rush into a new relationship. When you are filled with the fantastic enthusiasm for new love with which we are all so familiar, it is all too possible to make rash decisions. There is, of course, nothing wrong with spontaneity. However, the rush for companionship can often lead people to make mistakes, the most fundamental of which could be to end up with the wrong person.
This may well describe a situation in which you have previously found yourself. If this is the case, it is perfectly understandable for you to have doubts about the suitability of your current partner. But how can you be sure? To try to solve this tricky conundrum, I have compiled a list of tell-take signs that your lover is, indeed, the one for you.
In Your Comfort Zone:
One of the most important prerequisites for a successful relationship is, of course, a mutual feeling of comfort in one another's company. If you are truly compatible, then spending time with your lover will come as second nature. How often do you feel awkward around your partner? If this occurs on any but the most unusual occasions, perhaps you should think twice about the match. If, however, you are happy to be yourself, then display all your characteristics and you are on your way to romantic bliss.
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall:
Are you worried about your appearance when you see your partner? It is, of course, understandable to worry about how you look in the early stages of a relationship because you want to appear as attractive to the object of your affections. Relax! Just make yourself as attractive as you can and then proceed ahead to be your true self. It is much more important for your partner to really care about you as a person.
Laugh and Laugh:
Relationships can be intense, and this is for the best. Strong feels are a must if your partnership is to last. However, this should not mean that your romantic life is one of constant head-scratching or doom and gloom. One of the most important signs of a successful future match is a tendency towards laughter. If your lover makes you laugh until your sides hut, or if thinking about seeing them fills you with anticipation about the entertaining times you are going to have, then you can be confident that you have passed another of the most important relationship tests.
Often people suggest that if you have doubts about a relationship, then it is probably not working. It is better to consider your match from every angle and, if it emerges unscathed, then romantic success is yours for the taking!
Randy Gardner is Romeo and is the exclusive writer for "Got To Have It Romantic Gift Creations".
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